Lesbian sex. It’s one of those things that is often speculated about, and not often talked about. We have so many questions, and yet so few real answers.

It’s time to get the facts straight.

Jincey Lumpkin is the Founder and ‘Chief Sexy Officer’ of Juicy Pink Box. She’s also a lesbian.

1) What exactly do you two do when you’re doing it?

The ways we have sex are as varied as straight couples. I’d argue that the sex we have is actually better, because there’s not the looming issue of a hard-on and how the hard-on will be serviced. Women are also capable of multiple orgasms, so there is little to no recovery time. We have oral sex, anal sex, penetrative sex and everything in between.

2) So, what, I mean, is one of you ‘the man’?

This question is always hilarious to me, because it shows how deeply ingrained strict gender roles are. Sometimes there are more masculine women or queer folks who like to be in control, but not always. It all comes down to personal preference, honestly. And not just that one of us is always “a top” and the other “a bottom”… we often switch roles, sometimes during the middle of the same sex session.

3) Is there some sort of instinctive connection that allows women know what the other woman wants?

God, I wish. No, no and no. Just like hetero people, it takes us gay ladies a while to figure out what we like. I had absolutely no idea what the hell I was doing for a good year or so after I started sleeping with women. It wasn’t until I met my first girlfriend that I really started to understand how profoundly mind-blowing sex with a woman can be.

4) Strap-ons. Do you always use them?

No. Again, it depends on the couple, but for me, it’s a sort of “special occasion” thing. I also really like to receive anal sex, so I like to have a strap-on penetrate me there, because it feels nice. Some women or queer folks like to incorporate strap-on sex more regularly. Sometimes we role-play and take on a more masculine character, and, for other people, a masculine role feels generally more comfortable for them.

5) If you like women, why would you have sex with a girl who looks like a boy? Why not just date a man?

Because men are men. As a lesbian, I’m attracted to the parts and mind of a woman. Men don’t have boobs (well, they do, but they are not developed). I have a very hard time connecting on an emotional level with men. I can have friends that are dudes, but falling in love was tough, because I just don’t relate to men in the same way. We don’t “click.” Also, even with more masculine looking men or queer folks, there is still a feeling of difference from the norm, and that feels right for many of us.

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[Source : Huffington Post]